I recently asked my friend John who lives in the UK what he thinks about it? And here is what he sent me.
Always get the right diamond ring for her
When all the questions and doubts about how, when and if, fade and you're finally sure that you found the right partner another doubt creeps up your mind. Will I be able to find the right ring for her? Which kind of engagement ring should I get? Will she like it?
Different people, different ways
It's known that nowadays it is not anymore only the future grooms' decision on what a ring should look like. However, if we think about it in a traditional way it is typically the man that buys a ring and it is also him that asks his future wife for her hand.
There are of course situations where both are looking out for many different type of rings and that fits their tastes and wishes. Surfing the web from the comfort of your home for rings became a fast, easy and modern way to learn what one' likes and what is on an absolutely no go.
Also, there might be times where the woman wants to decide and buy the ring just to make sure that it is the right one.
Nothing is unthinkable and all the above scenarios are possible. But no matter who buys the ring for whom. This post aims to make it easier when it comes to decide which type of ring one should buy for his or her partner.
Personality meets ring
See the following as a rough guideline on which type of engagement ring would match with the type of personality your partner has. This should in no way be taken on as the only way to choose a ring. But, I certainly hope that it might help your decision when thinking of your loved one. So, here we go. These are the different types of personalities matched to the different styles of engagement rings.
The Traditional One
You can't go wrong on this if you know that your partner loves the entire fairy tale types of weddings. You should look for a traditional round cut diamond ring in yellow or white gold which is elegant and timeless. This ring will match not only her personality but also her beautiful white wedding dress and gown which she'll probably wear on her wedding day.
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| solitaire diamond ring in white gold |
The Dreamer
This type of person is very romantic an would adore an engagement ring that has a different shape and colour. Think about flowers, hearts and every other thing that represents symbols of love.
ring in yellow gold with a round ruby and side diamonds
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| flower engagement ring in redgold |
The Alternative
Traditional shaped rings are a no-go for people with this type of personality. They desire different shapes and different materials. By choosing something that's uncommon like a double diamond setting on the ring mirroring the two of you or maybe a design ring like the 'dancing lady' as seen below you will be on the winning side. This ring in a spiral design reflects the beauty of a modern sculpture.
diamond design ring in white gold from the 'dacing lady' collection
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| Dancing Lady |
The Hipster
She loves her ring to be modern but with a stylish touch from the past. Here I would consider a material like rose gold which is very much in trend and combine it with sleek modern design without leaving the classical diamond stones aside.
eternity ring in red gold with small diamonds on the side
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| eternity ring |
Everyone wants diamonds
So, there we go. That is how one could choose an engagement ring. Simply buy thinking about the type of personality the partner has. There is one thing that many 'soon to become brides' have in common. They usually all prefer engagement rings with a gemstone. Diamonds are the most common stones found on engagement rings but it isn't unusual that your partner might love a ring with a different gemstone like a sapphire or a ruby. In the end this should of course be your choice. Just wanted to mention that a gemstone is usually expected.
Of course there are couples that prefer not to wear rings at all or might choose only symbolic rings made out of wood or plastic.
The place and time to ask the question
After finally holding the ring in your hands the final step has to be thought through. When and where should I asked her? Even if you might think that this is almost an impossible task to accomplish let me assure you; It might be easier than you think. When it comes to the timing think of special holidays like Valentine's Day or her birthday maybe one of the winter or summer holidays? When it comes to the place it is also good to decide based on her or his personality. If she is a romantic person she might like to hear your question at the place where you very first met. As a traditional type of girl one would love to see you knee down in front of her during a family reunion...
